THOUGHT 531

“Who said it could not be done? And tell me what great victories does he have to his credit, which qualifies him to judge what can and can’t be accomplished”.            Napoleon Hill

THOUGHT 530

 

“We lift ourselves by our thought. If you want to enlarge your life, you must first enlarge your thought of it and of yourself. Hold the ideal of yourself as you long to be, always everywhere.”

Orison Swett Marden

THOUGHT 529

“Defeat is a state of mind. No one is ever defeated until defeat has been accepted as reality. To me, defeat in anything is merely temporary, and its punishment is but an urge for me to greater effort to achieve my goal. Defeat simply tells me that something is wrong in my doing; it is a path leading to success and truth.”

Bruce Lee

CHARLES WALLACE

CHARLES ALAN WALLACE

Age 79, of Bethel Park, PA formerly of Sheridan, PA passed away peacefully on Tuesday, May 21, 2019. Born on November 1, 1939, in Pittsburgh he was the son of the late Louise Elizabeth and James T. Wallace. Beloved husband of Mary Ellen Adlard Wallace for 58 years; loving father of Pamela Wallace, Charles (Krysti Miller) Wallace Jr., Mark (Brenda) Wallace, and Matthew (Carolyn Cooper) Wallace; cherished grandfather of Hunter, Heather, William, Cassia, Margaret, Mack, and Madison; dear brother of Mary Louise (the late Russell) Frazee, the late Elsa Mae (John) Hopkins, and James (Ellen Joan) Wallace Jr.; also survived by many adored nieces and nephews. 55 years in Isshinryu Karate having achieved the rank of 9th Dan, Hanshi Go. He taught, encouraged and influenced hundreds of students throughout his career. A gathering of family and friends will be held, Saturday, May 25, 2019 from 11 a.m. – 2 p.m. with a memorial service immediately to follow at PITTSBURGH CREMATION & FUNERAL CARE, 3287 Washington Rd., McMurray, PA 15317, 724-260-5546.

THOUGHT 527

“My father used to say to me, ‘Whenever you get into a jam, whenever you get into a crisis or an emergency…become the calmest person in the room and you’ll be able to figure your way out of it.'”
Rudolph Giuliani

THOUGHT 526

It’s the little things you do that can make a big difference. What are you attempting to accomplish? What little thing can you do today that will make you more effective? You are probably only one step away from greatness. Jim Rolm

THOUGHT 525

“Destiny is not a matter of chance, it is a matter of choice; it is not a thing to be waited for, it is a thing to be achieved.”   William Jennings Bryan

THOUGHT 524

“Determination and perseverance move the world; thinking that others will do it for you is a sure way to fail.”    Marva Collins

THOUGHT 523

Being, Doing & Having – By Zig Ziglar – August 2003 – 5Pillars.com

One of my favorite phrases is “You’ve got to be before you can do, and do before you can have.” In short, you have to be a person of character and do the right things, and then you can have the things you really want. To make the “be, do, have” theory valid, believable, and usable on your part, look at some examples in your own life:

1. Take a sheet of paper and draw two vertical lines to make three columns.

2. At the top of the left-hand column, write BE; in the middle column write DO; and over the last column, write HAVE.

3. In the right-hand column, list all the things that you really want in life, whether it’s an education, good family relationships, a beautiful new home, a fancy luxury car, a trip around the world, better health–you name it.

4. Work your way down the center column of the page, identifying the things you have to do in order to have the things listed in the right-hand column.

Say that you want a successful marriage. To do so, you must be willing to share your innermost thoughts and concerns with your mate. You must carry more than your share of the workload, encourage you mate when he or she is down, and defend your mate against criticism. You need to remember special occasions. Be particularly helpful when your mate is having a “down day,” is not feeling well, or has had a tough time on the job. Apply the philosophy that you can have everything that you want out of this marriage if you just help your mate get what he or she wants.

Everybody’s list varies, because each of us has unique needs, beliefs and interests. However, the formula remains the same.

5. Go to the left-hand column and identify what you have to BE in order to DO so that you can HAVE. To have a successful marriage, some of the things that you must BE are faithful, attentive, loving, caring, helpful, empathetic, encouraging, persistent, committed, kind, thoughtful, considerate and responsible. Not having all these qualities at this moment is okay, because they’re all skills, and skills can be developed.

Regardless of what you want to HAVE you can use this basic formula. Just look at what you have to DO in order to accomplish that objective, and then examine yourself and determine what kind of person you have to be in order to do so that you can have.